"2023"

Foreword

January 15th, 2024

If you're not sure what you're looking at, this is what happened when I asked people to write a recommendation for something that they liked this year.

I wasn't sure what to expect, and it definitely feels different, disjoint— a reminder that we spend our day looking at algorithmically curated suggestions that are a tiny slice of all of the "stuff" out there. I've learned a lot reading them all, and hope you all do too, whether you take a recommendation or just like seeing how different people's interests are.

I also learned a lot with this first experiment. Of all those that expressed interest, there are far fewer shared here today. Quite a few of you mentioned how much you struggled to come up with something and/or make time to write. Thanks for doing it regardless! I know a few people have drafts that they didn't deem "good enough", I know that feeling all too well.

On that note, I figured I'd see if this could continue with a lower barrier this time around. If you'd like to contribute to the next "volume" please send a song, image, or anything else that feels like winter to things@iliketh.is by February 1st. Exposition optional but always appreciated. Feel free to share this page with others that might want to take part.
(Future theme suggestions also welcome.)

I hope you enjoy reading what others liked as much as I have.

Things We Liked in 2023

Cracking the Cryptic

A thing I like is Cracking the Cryptic!

CtC is primarily a YouTube channel run by a gentle British duo (Mark Goodliffe and Simon Anthony) that covers logic puzzles, with an emphasis on variant sudoku, every day. Each of them publishes a video each day that records themselves solving a puzzle for the first time, and explaining what they're doing as they go.

Their (very fun) Miracle Sudoku video went viral early in the pandemic and is a great representative of how they take an obscure, daunting, and not-inherently-exciting-looking field and can somehow make a gripping video that you want to sit through the entire way:

Defying expectations, they've built an audience of hundreds of thousands of people, and in the process taking what used to be a tiny corner of the world and growing it into a thriving community of puzzle creators and enthusiasts. Its early years inspired a new generation of people to discover that they loved creating puzzles too, and by doing this they dramatically expanded and elevated the logic puzzle community. It's increased by orders of magnitude, bringing in fresh ideas and a desire to experiment and build (and one-up) each other that has produced a perpetual motion machine of creativity. It's not an overstatement to say that the community Cracking the Cryptic built is basically producing a golden age of puzzles,

I first found them a few years ago when Simon streamed himself playing The Witness, which was a lot of fun to watch. But I wasn't interested in the main channel content, because, while I've enjoyed logic puzzles since I was a kid, I find plain sudoku very boring. It wasn't until the top of 2023 that I watched the Miracle Sudoku again and thought that hmm, maybe these are the sorts of things that could actually be fun and maybe I'd be decent at them. So I gave a few strange variants a shot, and of course found I totally loved them. Not all of the puzzles are sudokus -- I discovered plenty of non-sudoku puzzles and hybrids -- but even the ones that are, the puzzle usually doesn't rely on more than very basic sudoku constraints to provide some structure and a way for information to move around. The sudoku constraints are a sort of logical substrate on which one can create much stranger and more creative interactions.

Since getting into it, I've spent 2023 basically always having a puzzle going - on my laptop in the evening (truly ideal while feeding an infant!), and on my phone for downtime. And because of the incredible creativity engine and kind community that CtC has built, I may never run out - ever.

I truly admire the steady daily work that Mark and Simon from Cracking the Cryptic put in, which included years in obscurity with few followers. They turned a personal love into something on which they can make a living, and sparked that love within people around the world and created something that grows itself. They're not only able to make their job something they love, but have their energy return back to them, good karma style, to create more of the things that motivated them to do this whole thing in the first place. I really respect what they did and my life has been a lot more fun for it!

~Eric Mill

Fred Draper of Knoxville, TN

We often purchase a piece of art together to celebrate our anniversary. This is this year's discovery.

This is a photograph by Fred Draper of Knoxville, TN. He takes digital photos and then does digital post-processing to create various effects. This particular photo was taken in the Smokies of "a tree that thousands of people drive past every year" as Fred put it. It immediately grabbed both of our attention. I think it looks like something that Van Gogh would have painted had he come to the New World.

Honey on the Hi-Fi

Happy New Year! I listened to this album so much this year. It is my favorite kind of album, the kind that is best when you play it all the way through. I think I've done so 100 times this year.

Or if you don't want to do that, try this one:

I Need That

A play I liked this past year was "I Need That," starring Danny DeVito, Ray Anthony Thomas, and Lucy DeVito. To me, the best plays are the ones that are both hilarious and heartbreaking, and this one was certainly both. Danny DeVito brought his usual effortless humor, while at the same time, the play tackles heavier themes around family, friendship, loss, memories, and - perhaps most of all - how we relate to the physical objects that carry those memories.

I Want To Be A Tomato Plant (by Rani Ban)

I saw this poem a few months ago by Rani Ban, a printmaker I really admire, and it made me so happy. I'm hard on myself as a parent and as many other things, and as a parent you often compare your kids to other kids. I got this for myself and another mom who is similarly hard on herself with her kids, and I hope it's a reminder to us both and our kids someday that mess is the most beautiful kind of growth, and there is no such thing as failure when you look at it as where you fall is where you grow roots. Let's all say fuck you to the garden's parameters.

Islander

Islander is a STUNNING new contemporary folk musical (winner of Best New Musical at Edinburgh Fringe Festival) that I saw in December at Chicago Shakespeare Theater. It was my favorite musical of the year as well as a new all-time favorite. It was simply gorgeous and gorgeously simple. Two women played different pairs of characters throughout the show, transitioning seamlessly between roles and producing real-time score and sound effects using live looping (this will BLOW your mind). The show itself was about family and what we owe each other, friendship and what we give each other, land and the ways we attend to it, whales and what we can learn from them, and wonder. If you ever have the chance (and I hope many people will have many chances), see this show!

King Diamond's Abigail

I love art, especially when it's on TV. There was this episode of Keeping Up With the Kardashians ("KUWTK") where Travis Barker is introduced as Kortney's boyfriend. Travis Barker is the drummer we all know and love from blink-182 but also Ska band Aquabats and producer on those really cringe Machine Gun Kelly singles. I love him. He was doing an MTV Cribs style rundown of his home decor -- until he got to this curiously placed stack of records on the fireplace mantle. He pauses and gets real serious in a Keanu Reeves stance -- says these are the most important albums ever to him. You catch a glimpse of "Them", King Diamond's third album, on top before they cut to something else.

To those not in the know, King Diamond is not emo sk8terboi pop. It is weirdo, theatrical in-your-face metal that defies comparisons. I knew all of this vaguely before this episode of KUWTK, but I said, "fuck it" -- I'm intrigued. I first whipped up spotify to their most popular album - Abigail.

Let me tell you. As a dude who grew up sipping Mtn lightning to Korn skatting, I was highly unprepared for the face ripping. YO! TURN THIS SHIT UP. It is unlike anything you will listen to, even for metalheads. But it absolutely fucks. The album is a masterpiece.

Have a shot of King Diamond himself (lifted shamelessly from Wikipedia)

Live on Set (Big Grande)

I feel like recommending an improv show is a quick way to get people to skip to the next one. That said, if you've only ever seen short improv bits and hard-to-watch amateurs, I think "Live on Set" shows something unique that'll be surprising to most people.

A bit over a year ago, I saw a live Big Grande show. I'll remember them from 2023 as I've spent most commutes, errands, and chores catching up on the back catalog of their long-running "Teacher's Lounge" podcast which has seen them improvising in the same characters for seven years now. (Bonus Rec: If you've seen "The Other Two" on HBO, one of the members is Drew Tarver, one of the funniest actors working today.)

But I don't think most are going to want to dive into an improvised podcast with 200 episodes of lore. Instead, I figured I'd recommend "Live on Set." The group filmed four improvised specials, each one taking place a different sitcom-like set. Three of the four performers walk out not knowing what the set will look like or how their peers will be dressed and then perform an improvised scene for 30 minutes.

The resulting four shows are some of the most unique I've seen this year. The first one is free on YouTube, embedded here:

The Mountain in the Sea - Ray Nayler

I love this fictional book, and octopuses, but I don’t want to give it all away and I have a bad habit of ruining plots for people. I'll say I enjoyed it thoroughly, you’re in for a treat. There are many characters and you are left trying to learn how they all interact with each other. There’s enough world-building to make me want to learn more about the world after the end. In an age where AI is becoming more popular and powerful with OpenAI and its art becoming more controversial, this book should have stood out more. The book asks the question of what would it be like if we met sentient life on the planet rather than in space— sort of like an under-the-sea version of Contact. It asks a lot of questions and leaves the hardest unanswered for you to think about which is great and stays within the central thesis of the story which I enjoyed. As someone who wants to write science fiction with a fictional book explaining the world and with multiple characters’ POV it’s the kind of book I would have written myself and I’m super envious that Ray Nayler wrote it before me.

buy it on bookshop.org

Paul T. Goldman

I had to go back to make sure this was 2023, and it was January 1st 2023, so that seems perfect.

I want people to watch Paul T. Goldman, I don't think enough people caught this because I didn't hear anything about it.

It is, as they say, a tale told by an idiot, full of sound and fury, signifying nothing. It is like a true crime Tommy Wiseau if that makes any sense. I hate true crime usually, maybe that's why this works?

Oh yeah, it is on the Peacock.

Remedios Varo

The art that meant the most to me this year was the Remedios Varo: Science Fictions exhibition. A Mexican artist that was active for a short nine years, I was unfamiliar with Varo until wandering into the exhibition earlier this year. Most of Varo's paintings feature surreal architecture and otherworldly feminine figures. They evoke spiritualism, but are also often grounded in social problems, particularly the status of women in the 1950s and 60s. I'm not sure how to pick just one to feature here, so after way too much deliberation I am going with Mujer Saljendo del Psicoanalista (Woman Leaving the Psychoanalyst). I'll let it speak for itself—

Slayers X: Terminal Aftermath: Vengance of the Slayer

A first-person shooter with purposefully dated graphics. A numetal inspired soundtrack. A protagonist who likes to tell his adversaries that he “made out with your mom last night.” These are the key ingredients to a Slayers X, a game that I could not put down for a good while last year.

If you weren’t an impressionable adolescent in the late 90s/early 2000s, I can’t guarantee that this game will cast the same spell on you as it did on me. Slayers X is unabashedly fueled by nostalgia. There is no other reason for this game to look straight off of your Compaq Presario. Intentionally dated graphics have been a feature of many independent games recently, with several going for an 8 or 16 bit look, but this is the first one I encountered that attempts to capture the magic of those Doom/Duke Nukem days. The latter is a particularly apparent influence, as the hero of Slayers X: Terminal Aftermath: Vengance of the Slayer (yes, “vengance” is spelled incorrectly), cracks wise throughout the adventure, delighting the player with sophomoric exclamations of his sexual prowess and general awesomeness. Real high-brow stuff.

But it’s not just 90s window-dressing, this game is a blast. It is a fun time from beginning to end, with of course the classic first-person shooter replay opportunities to find all the hidden items and best the Psyko Sindicate (sic) on a harder difficulty. I’m not even a big first-person shooter fan, but this game tapped into a subconscious node of my brain and made me feel like I was playing out a truly terrible, grotesque, and yet somehow fun nightmare. Fun sidenote, this game is a spinoff of another dial-up era inspired game, Hypnopace Outlaw. That game is also worth at least 37 minutes of your time.

watches

I like watches. When asked why, I might pick one up, as if handling a potato, and simply state, “I just think they’re neat.” In today's world, most people glance at their phones for the time. Honestly, even when I'm wearing a watch, I often find myself doing the same. It's usually more accurate, and depending on the watch's style, it's likely easier to read at a glance. As a watch enthusiast, I find this shift quite fascinating. It's one of the many reasons I find watches so intriguing. With more advanced devices for timekeeping, watches are no longer bound to their functional roles. This freedom allows watchmakers to explore more playful and artistic designs.

I want to introduce you to the idea of a watch as a form of art. Definitions of art vary, but for me, art is anything designed to evoke an emotional response from its audience. The watches I admire achieve this, whether through their historical significance, the stories embedded in their designs, or the personal milestones and experiences I associate with them. Sometimes, it's just the way the light dances off the dial that brings a smile to my face.

A British watch microbrand, “Mr Jones,” resonates with these ideas. Their mission is to create “unusual watches which tell a story, start a conversation or simply make you smile.”

I’d like to share with you one of their watches aptly named “A perfectly useless afternoon”, designed by Kristof Devos as a gentle reminder to take it easy and spend time enjoying the moment.

Kristof explains his inspiration for the design:

"Ironically, it took time to change the way I look at time. A couple of years ago, I read a quote by a Chinese writer, translator, linguist and philosopher Lin Yutang that I’ve kept close to my heart ever since:

'If you can spend a perfectly useless afternoon in a perfectly useless manner, you have learnt how to live'.

So when designing this watch, I took that quote as a starting point.

The quote by Lin Yutang taught me the value of doing nothing at all every once in a while.

One of the ways I love wasting time is by floating around, with my eyes closed, letting the water be my guide.

The perspective of my illustration lets you dive into time."

If you are wondering how to read the time:

  • The relaxed figure's stretched leg shows the hour.
  • The tiny plastic duck floats around to show you the minutes.